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The Impostor Syndrome & The Self Kindness Revolution with Lara Heacock (Podcast)

10/2/2016

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Have you ever felt like a fraud?  Do you treat yourself poorly? This is the episode for you!

​In this podcast Lara Heacock comes on to discuss The Impostor Syndrome and
The Self Kindness Revolution. 

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ABOUT LARA (From Her Website)

​Hi! I’m Lara Heacock, and I believe, so strongly, in being kind to yourself.

My Kind Over Matter story began after decades of trying to check all the “right” boxes…

I got the degree (in Psychology) and then an MBA. I got a house and a husband, and I poured my heart and soul into a very successful 11 year career as a professional recruiter and leader.

I was the strong one holding everyone else up, determined to maintain the image that I had everything perfectly under control, and could do it all! I was the good one, the reliable one, the one who had it all together, but I wasn’t happy. There was nothing left for me.
Eventually, I was exhausted. I couldn’t fall asleep at night and had no energy during the day. I felt disconnected, misunderstood and angry…a lot…especially at my husband. Even though I’d cultivated this ‘perfect’ image, I still struggled with how I felt when I looked in the mirror, but I thought it was weak to share any of this. After all, I was the strong one! What would people think?

I was not good at asking for help, and kept hoping that staying busy and having nice stuff would make me feel better.

When I realized that I could no longer get out of bed on time to get to work, and that I was procrastinating everything because I felt insecure & anxious, I knew something had to change. My emotional balloon was about to burst!

I started being kind to & taking care of myself, and everything changed. I was happier, felt balanced and got “me” back! My marriage improved and my stress level went WAY down. I even found the courage to pursue my lifelong dream of becoming an Executive Life Coach. It was the start of a journey that changed my life.

I will never forget sitting in my first day of coaching training and admitting that I was afraid everything was fake and there was nothing underneath.

Guess what?
  • There was SO MUCH underneath the façade of perfect!
  • Everyone feels this way, and the courageous choice is to ask for help.
  • We are just as important as the people we love and serve
  • It’s pretty fabulous to embrace imperfections, and having support is magically life-changing!

You can’t do it alone either, and you don’t have to.
When I learned to love and take care of myself, everything changed. I found my inner light. I built a foundation of self-kindness and acceptance, and am now better equipped to handle what life throws at me. Through my training, I was able to re-claim my self-worth, self-respect and creativity.

If I can change, so can you!
Since then, I’ve spent hundreds of hours helping others:
  • Make time for self-care without sacrificing success
  • Set healthy boundaries and stop overcommitting
  • Feel fully engaged in life
  • Better serve the world
  • Finally feel like they’re enough

Life is short, and you deserve to enjoy yours fully!

Let me show you how.

Click HERE to read about working with Lara 

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Vicki Murphy link
7/31/2017 10:11:15 am

What a wonderful article full of gold nuggets to tuck into my days.

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